LIFE : SURVIVE

Mostly early of the month there was nothing much to do specially after hitting April sale target. Target for May still not coming yet so most of the sale reps were doing their own routine visiting the outlets. While the merchandiser had to complete their claims so that their salaries could be done as soon as possible. While waiting for my merchandiser to complete their claims and photos that need to be submitted to FSE, I was in Sale Rep's room. A group of Sale Rep male and female were discussing about love and life after married. Even though they were discussing in Hokkien dialect but I still could understand the topic that they were discussed. Very interesting topic but some of the ladies were not agree with the men opinion. Most of the men are agreed that love alone is not enough to survive the marriage without financial support. Most of the divorced cases due to financial problem even though they are married base on love. I just listen but at the end of the discussion I told them to survive in marriage there were a few factor that need to be more focus. Tolerance and understanding was most important factor beside financial. Why we need tolerance because we were brought up by two different family environment so we need to tolerate to each other to build up our own family by adding both good values that been taught by the parents from both side.

Understand both side of husband and wife character and be more transparent with your partner and shared your sad and good news together. Respect to each other and accept whatever weaknesses from both side and tried to improve from time to time. Shared the responsibility of marriage together and be more matured when there is problem arise. Financial problem can be solved if both couple are willing to share the household expenses even though husband has to be more responsible about it. Willingness to share the burden of financial can save the marriage. Last but not least marriage is part of human nature to build up next generation. Sometime money, property, understanding, love etc will be more meaningless when the trust being betrayed as one of my best friend wrote in her Facebook. Might be she had being going thru that life and know how it feel when someone betrayed her love.