Unbelievable when someone who still young in the age of 20ties have an adopted son. Hard to believe but it’s a reality. I thought it was a joke but when I had an opportunity to ask this young guy and the answer that I received was really shock me. I keep on asking him, what is the main reason that you are adopting a son? There must be a good reason why this guy is doing that. Just for a fun or want to help a needy family. He did mention his entire family member knew about it and they did not against his idea to have an adopted son. In a Malay custom, it’s common when we treat other than our family member as an adopted mother, father, sister and brother specially when we a far from home. Commonly we do this to avoid to be lonely and to feel always like home when this people around but it’s very rare occasion when someone who are still young adopted a son. Is this a new phenomenon? Or Are we adopted a new culture that against our Asian culture? Are we developing a new culture following what happen in Australia? A same an advertisement with three versions, one family is holding a kid, one man is holding a boy and a lady is holding a girl. A very complex question to answer but the societies are moving toward that trend, having an adopted kids without married and in the same time don't want to be lonely.
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